Meet Our Staff

Rev. James E. Harrington



What a joy it is to serve as the Pastor of Friendship United Methodist Church, a church that has been so instrumental in my spiritual growth and helping me discern my call to pastoral ministry.   I am grateful to God for the opportunity to serve at such an exciting time in the life of this congregation.

About Jim

I am a local boy who grew up in Falls Church.  Although I was not raised in the church, God placed many Christian believers along my path to nurture and guide me on the journey.  While attending college at Virginia Tech, I became connected with a small group that forever changed my life.  Much in the Wesleyan spirit, this group instilled in me the importance of the spiritual disciplines of Bible study, praying together, and mutual accountability in small groups.  Youth ministry and discipleship have long been important focuses in my ministry.   

Favorite Verse:  

"And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds, not giving up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but encouraging one another—and all the more as you see the Day approaching. " (Hebrews 10:24-25)



Lauren Brownlee

Administrative Assistant

About Lauren 

I was raised in the church and was married at Graham Road UMC in 2015 where our daughter also attended preschool.  Our family attended a Trunk-or-Treat event here at Friendship UMC and loved the atmosphere and welcoming environment.  We became members of Friendship in 2017.  

I have owned my own business making custom apparel, gifts and more since 2017. Above all I’m a wife and a mom to two girls. My favorite time of year at church is the fall through the New Year - when so many amazing memories are made through Friendship's many great events. I'm looking forward to contributing to the church in many ways! 

Now Hiring

Director of Music Ministries

Director of Music Ministries

Friendship UMC is seeking a part-time Music Director. 

The Music Director is responsible for coordinating and implementing a music ministry that enhances the worship of God and the overall ministry of the congregation. The near-term focus of this position will be building up the adult choir and starting a children’s music program for our growing family ministry. 

This part-time position is approximately 10-12 hours per week under the direction of the Lead Pastor.  CLICK HERE FOR FULL JOB DESCRIPTION.

 Interested candidates should submit a cover letter, resume, and list of references to   

Chris Horner



Hello!  Since childhood, I have felt the hand of God guiding me to sacred music ministry. As a child, I sang in children's choirs and took piano lessons at Calvary UMC in South Arlington; at age 14, I was chosen to be apprentice organist to Lois Matthews.  I later studied with Peggy Kelly Reinburg and the NSO's William Neil.   I have been serving as organist and various other music positions for over 50 years. I consider sacred music—both choral and instrumental—as both my calling and personal path of prayer and service.  

It is my pleasure and privilege to serve as your organist and interim choir director.

About Chris

As of this date, I have been married to Colin for 46 years and have 10 grandchildren.  Besides music, I enjoy reading, gardening, watching TV with my granddaughter Samantha (especially anime) and studying Japanese. 

As a musician, the Psalms are close to my heart.  Because they speak to all manner of human emotions and conditions, I cannot pick a favorite Psalm, but a few of my favorites are Psalm 8, 19, 51; 91.  My faith journey has been influenced by authors, divine encounters in nature, relationships, and life experiences both bitter and sweet.  I see God in sunsets, birds, flowers, trees, the wind, mountains, oceans, clouds, and a baby's smile.  

Favorite Verse

"For I am sure that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor things present, nor things to come, nor powers, nor height, nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord." (Romans 8:38-39)

Favorite Authors

Some of my favorite authors through the years include Corrie ten Boom, Kathleen Norris, Sue Monk Kidd, and Annie Dillard.  Written on my Bible's front page:

Carrie Wendell 

Friendship Preschool

About Carrie  

I love being the preschool director at Friendship Preschool! This is my 10th year on the job, both at Friendship and previously at Graham Road. Our preschool's philosophy is to foster a love of learning among students, with a focus on mutual respect, fun, and kindness towards everyone. I always tell parents that if your child leaves our school with a love of books and a kind heart, we have done our job.


Judy Demasana

Friendship Child Care Center Director

About Judy

I have been a child educator for 26 years.  I love children!  I have no child of my own but thanks to God for calling me to serve 40 of his beautiful little children through the Friendship Child Care Center.

Favorite Verses

"Let the little children come to me, and do not stop them; for it is to such as these that the kingdom of heaven belongs."  (Matthew 19:14)

"For God so loved the world that he gave his only Son, so that everyone who believes in him may not perish but may have eternal life."  (John 3:16)


Angel Malarin


About Angel

Angel has served as the custodian of Friendship UMC since 2017, caring for various aspects of building cleaning and upkeep.  Friendship is blessed to have Angel as part of our team.

Now Hiring

Nursery Attendants

Nursery Attendants

Friendship UMC is seeking several part-time Nursery Attendants for Sunday mornings

The Nursery Attendant is responsible for providing care in the church’s nursery, under the direction of the Director of Children’s Ministry. The Nursery Attendant must be available to work from 9:30 a.m. to 12:45 p.m. on Sundays. (Additional days may be coordinated for special worship services such as Ash Wednesday, Maundy Thursday, Good Friday, Easter Sunday, and Christmas Eve. Times will vary on these special worship days.)

This part-time position is approximately 3 hours per week under the direction of the Children's Ministry CoordinatorCLICK HERE FOR FULL JOB DESCRIPTION.

 Interested candidates should email